Sometimes, we find ourselves thinking that fame, money, status, and material possessions are the things that make us happiest. But, according to the longest study on happiness, the thing that defines our quality of life is not what we have, it’s who we have. The key to happiness lies within our relationships with our families, spouses, and our fraternity brothers.

Click here to watch this TEDTalk video about how the good life is based on good relationships and take some time to think about your own relationships. How have your relationships with your brothers impacted your happiness? Which brothers do you want to reconnect with this summer? Do you have news to share with them? Share your responses by clicking here.